Affections to a foreign country and the chances in life

Of course, all land of Finland located above north of latitude-60-degree line, which means the winter in Finland is not always fun and the temperature can go down to minus 20 or 30 degree Celsius while the coming of cold front. The road is covered by soft snow and slippery ice, and the day light can be as short as 4 hours from 10 am to 2 pm. Nonetheless, I don’t feel very painful or sad so far.

I would rather consider these as my important life experiences and I even feel the freshness now. It is my first time to feel minus 20 degree temperature, my first time to ride a bike on a snow covered road, my first time to live in such a long night. Everything was my first time and made me so excited.

I don’t know I can still keep liking Finland in the future or not, but I would like to love it more in the coming years.

Similar to this way of thinking, anyone can try to love a foreign country or hate it by considering the difference in cultures, people and environments in different ways.

And if you cannot bring your thoughts to the foreign country to the positive side, you’ll have little chances to live in the country happily no matter it’s study or work there.

Certainly it’s not happy and there is no fun to wear black suits at the middle of summer under the 35-degree weather in Japan, nor living in a place where the sunset is 2 pm.

But if you can think in different ways, or adjust your feelings, for sure you’ll have higher possibility to find business chances and develop it there, so does living.

Except these, there is one another important thing to say for those who are living in foreign countries or trying to live in foreign countries.

Do you still remember your purpose of going and living in the foreign country? Haven’t you forgot that?

Why did you choose this country to go and live? Why did you come here? Why are you living here?

Did you achieve your goal?

If you haven’t achieved your goal, why don’t you try hard to achieve it? If you try, maybe you’ll find out where the fun is.

If you had achieved and you don’t feel it happy to stay neither any further goal here, then you can just leave the country and go back home.

If you didn’t achieve your goal and you want to give up, you can leave and go back to your home country at any time and moment as long as you consider your goal no more important.

If you had lost your purpose and goal to be here, you just leave now.

There is no need to stay in a foreign country and living every day unhappily.

After these questions, how do you feel?

Indeed there are lots of things to think and consider for those who are trying to move out of his/her home country or those who are already living in foreign countries.

There are plenty of ways to make your foreign study or work more fun or happier. The most important part is all about your thoughts and how you think.