The top 5 regrets of the dying (3)

(4) I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

I guess if I ask someone “are you considering your friends important?”, I believe everyone would answer “of course I am!”.

Is that true?

How much time in the past year you had spent for your friends? How much time you had made for your friends?

If you are asked questions like these, can you still simply answer that you do think consider your friends important?

Certainly, friends are busy for their own lives in different cities far away, which makes it difficult to meet each other frequently.

That’s why you need to go to meet them. That’s why you spend time to go there. That’s why you call them.

Your life won’t change due to some meetings with old friends, but for sure your life will be more abundant.

(5) I wish that I had let myself be happier.

What does happiness mean to you?

Work for important goals. Do what you really want to do. Be together with someone important for you. Walk under warm sunshine. Drink a cup of coffee and reading in a quiet afternoon. Have a cup of your favorite soup.

You do feel happy in many moments.

What is happening in the moments?

Are you spending time to try to produce these moments?

Are you enjoying the happiness in these moments?

That’s true. You can be happy simply.

Just have some more actions to produce the moments that bring you happiness.

Some more changes.

Some more happiness to yourself.